Parent & Child
Your chart laid over your child's: how the two of you work, and how your child experiences you. For any grown-up in their life.
Some days the two of you are one sentence. Other days you're on opposite sides of a door that has just been slammed. Neither is random. This reading lays your chart over your child's (astrologers call it a synastry) and shows how the two of you really work: how you live side by side, where you rub, and how you feel to each other.
Then the part that changes how you parent: how your child experiences you, from where they stand. And a handbook of small things to do about it.
This is the Parent & Child reading, written for a grandparent and a grandchild. After you order, you tell us who you are to the child, and the whole reading is written for that bond.
Your child's full Child's Horoscope is included, with the growing-up calendar.
Opens 20 November. Everyone on the list before then gets 10% off their first reading.
- Two readings, two PDFs
- English or Bulgarian
Not a score. A map of the two of you.
How your child experiences you
“When you raise your voice, he doesn't hear the words. He hears a door closing.”
Between a grown-up and a child, the contacts show what lands as warmth, what lands as pressure, and what your child soaks up without a word.
Both directions, nothing skipped
“Her Moon sits on your Sun, 0°20′. To her, you are simply home.”
In plain words: her feelings sit right on your core self, a third of a degree apart.
Your planets in their chart and theirs in yours, every contact that matters, the exact ones first.
Every friction comes with a fix
“Ten quiet minutes with one parent every evening, before the lights go out.”
The hard places are never the child's job: each ends with a concrete move for the grown-up, in minutes, words and places.
Even the gaps say something
“Your Moons don't speak to each other directly. Between you two, warmth travels through words.”
Where two charts don't touch, the reading says so and shows the bridge your closeness travels over instead.
What you'll learn about the two of you
The reading runs in this order. Open any chapter to see what's in it.
The portrait of you twoWith a title for your bond
Each of you in two sentences, then the formula of the pair: how you fit, where your strongest bridges are, and where each of you lands in the other's chart. It opens with a title written for the two of you, along the lines of “The lighthouse and the small explorer”.
The glueWhat holds you together
Everything that flows between you, theme by theme: what it means and what you'll see at home, then the contact it rests on and how exact it is. The rare, karmic and fated contacts are marked as such.
The frictionAnd what helps
Where the two of you rub, told as scenes you'll recognize from your own kitchen. Every one ends with what helps. The section closes with what is missing between your charts, and why that matters.
The housesIn both directions
Where you land in your child's chart, and where they land in yours: who is home, who is the model, who soaks up whose moods. It closes with your bond in one phrase, and the grown-up's task.
The grown-up's handbookRules to try
Numbered rules, each drawn from one exact contact between your charts and written as something you can do on a Monday morning: with minutes, words, objects and places.
The years aheadTen years, with a golden period
The periods when something happens for both of you at once, with the dates and your ages at the time: the growing-up exams, and at least one golden stretch to plan something good in.
The arsenal of the bondThe deeper layers
Wherever your charts have them: the chart of the relationship itself, the thread that runs through your family, the places where one of you is plain good luck for the other, and the soul-level contacts.
The finaleThe last page
The two or three strongest things about you two, said once more in new words. The last sentence calls you what you are: Starmates.
Your child's horoscopeIncluded in the price
The whole Child's Horoscope comes with it as a second PDF: their portrait, gifts, hard places, planet by planet, and the growing-up calendar up to their 18th birthday.
Take a look inside
Pages from two real readings: the founder with each of her daughters. The same chapters appear twice on purpose, so you can see that a different child gets different words and different advice. Drag, or use the arrows; press the middle page to read it large.
From two birth times to your inbox
Tell us about both of you
After you order, a short form asks for the name, date, exact time and place of birth of the child and the grown-up, and who the grown-up is to the child: mum, dad, grandma, an uncle.
We lay one chart over the other
Every contact between the two charts is calculated in both directions, then read one by one for this pair alone.
It lands in your inbox
Designed PDFs, within 3 working days of your order. Yours to keep, print and reread as your child grows.
Questions before you order
I don't know the exact time of birth. Does it matter?
It does: an hour changes the Rising sign, the houses and the growing-up calendar. In Bulgaria the time is on the birth certificate and the hospital discharge note (епикриза); the hospital where your child was born can also tell you. In the UK and US, ask the hospital records office.
And if there is no way to find the time?
Write to us before you order. We can still write the portrait, the gifts and the hard places from the date and the place alone; the sections that need the exact time are left out and the reading is shorter. We tell you what will and won't be in it first.
What ages is it for?
From the day they are born to their 18th birthday. For a baby, the portrait and the first years are the useful part; the calendar grows with them.
How long does it take?
Within 3 working days of your order, by email, as a designed PDF you can print.
In which language?
English or Bulgarian, your choice. Each is written in that language, not translated.
How is it made? Is it AI?
The chart is calculated with the Swiss Ephemeris, the data professional astrologers use. The text is drafted with AI from our own rules and examples, then read and corrected by a human before it goes out. The speed comes from the tools. The care is ours.
How do I pay?
By card, when we open on 20 November. You pay first, then a short form asks for the birth details.
Who makes your reading
It started with my first daughter. She was born with seven planets in Aquarius, and none of the parenting books described the child in front of me. Her chart did.
For more than five years I have read the charts of my own children and of our friends' children, and then watched what actually helped at home. The Starmates grew out of that. I still read every chart myself, and a human checks again before anything leaves us. Everything we learn goes one way: towards parents, as advice you can use on an ordinary Tuesday.
Anna, founder of The Starmates
Calculated with the Swiss Ephemeris, to the minute of birth. Written section by section for your child, with AI helping us draft faster. Designed page by page. Checked by a human before it leaves us. The speed comes from the tools. The care is ours.
Parent & Child
€55Child's Horoscope included
One child, one grown-up, two readings: the two of you together, and your child on their own.
What you get
- The reading of the two of you, as a designed PDF
- Your child's full horoscope, with the growing-up calendar
- The double chart wheel of the two of you
- The glue, the friction, and what helps with each
- The grown-up's handbook of concrete rules
- The ten years ahead of you both, with a golden period
- In English or Bulgarian
For any grown-up in the child's life: a parent, a grandparent, an aunt or an uncle. You tell us who they are to the child after you order. One order covers one pair, and the child's horoscope that comes with it.
- DeliveryBy email, within 3 working days of your order.
- Made to orderWritten for your family alone. Gave us a wrong time, date or place? Tell us and we redo it with the right details. A mistake on our side? We fix it. Because it is made for you, it can't be returned once it's made.
- Your dataBirth details are used for your reading only, never shared or sold, and deleted on request. Privacy
More than two of you?
Two parents and one child. One parent and two children. Grandparents included. The Family Kit reads every pair in the family, and then the pattern you all share.